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      KEYZINE: An e-zine for LEADERS:
     ABOUT THE PEOPLE PART OF BUSINESS
                
Volume 57, December 2005
    Publisher: © Key Associates, 2005
              ISSN # 1545-8873
           http://www.mkkey.com

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This Issue: On "Managing Stress"

This is a monthly electronic magazine for anyone 
who wants to be a better leader, coach, facilitator, 
or simply, to tune up their people skills.  It is a 
complimentary publication, devoted to the
next
evolution of Quality Thinking.

View Earlier Issues --See our new website (http://www.mkkey.com

Contents:

"Blessed are the flexible, for they will not be 
bent out of shape."
                 
-Michael McGriff, MD

"I can tell a lot about a person by the way 
he/she handles three things: a rainy day. 
lost luggage, and tangled Christmas lights.
                  
-Maya Angelou

"Every pearl is an oyster's victory over irritation."
                   - ???

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WHAT'S HOT IN LEADERSHIP
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PROMOTION OF WELLNESS IN THE WORKPLACE.

PACING CHANGE, SO THAT EVERYTHING 
IS NOT A PRIORITY.

FREEDOM FROM BUREAUCRACY, OVERLOAD, 
ROLE AMBIGUITY, BURNOUT AND RUST-OUT.

CLEAR DECISION-MAKING PROCESSES.

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MAINTAINING YOURSELF AS A LEADER
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Stress is recognized as the most pervasive and 
potent toxin in the workplace.  Recognize the symptoms: 
absenteeism, low morale, apathy, substance abuse, 
increased rates of illness and disability, workers comp
claims, accidents, tardiness, leaving early, reduced 
productivity.  If you are stressed, others are, too
--it is infectious.

Stress management is a leadership responsibility. 
Why not create a corporate climate that minimizes stress?  
An environment that is relaxed, participatory, that 
allows people space and territory.  Adequate reward 
mechanisms, which focus on what has gone well.  
Realistic job content, hours, and working conditions.  
A flatter structure that minimizes bureaucracy, 
and gives people more control over their work.  
Programs that enhance health, fitness, nutrition, 
and balance.

People will take their cue from you.  Observe and 
adjust your attitude toward change, your management 
of time, the way you work with others, and how 
you  maintain a balanced life.  

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FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS
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I think a little stress is a good thing.  Why not 
encourage it?

It is true that all stress is not harmful.  There is 
a good form of  stress (eustress), which is linked 
to energy, enjoyment, and creativity.  Stress mobilizes 
us for action, shapes perception, heightens attention.  
If stress is too low, we cultivate the condition of 
low energy called "rust-out."

The risk is that people vary in their abilities to 
be challenged without being overwhelmed.  If you can 
establish clear priorities and values, together with work 
choices, people can then select opportunities and 
challenges that fit.

 

How do I develop a plan for managing stress in my life?

- View change as a challenge, opportunity
- Manage your time
- Say no, let go
- Get help, delegate
- Relaxation techniques. e.g., breathing, quieting
- Laugh
- Set realistic goals
- Decrease caffeine, alcohol, tobacco
- Increase nutrition, rest, exercise
- Compartmentalize--leave work at work
- Avoid blaming yourself and others
- Reframe--look for the upside
- Do something to help others
- Insulate--refuse to accept other people's problems, avoid negative people
- Stop self-defeating thoughts
- When you can, exercise choice
- Utilize social support--share your problems, receive nurturance
- Live one day at a time

 

Aren't physical health problems linked to stress ? 

Yes.  Hans Selye, an endocrinologist, first linked stress to 
illness and even death.  These "diseases of adaptation" 
are not the consequence of external agents, but our 
less than perfect adaptive reactions to stressors 
we encounter in life.  Holmes & Rahe further elaborated: 
too many life changes (both good and bad) in too short a 
period of time were strongly linked to physical and psychological 
distress.   More than just a crisis reaction, we cannot 
sustain a bodily state of "chronic vigilance"--always 
preparing to "fight or run (flight)"-- without 
exhaustion.  High on the list are cancer, heart failure, 
schizophrenia, bipolar disorder, alcoholism, diabetes, 
chest pain, high blood pressure, and peptic ulcers.  The 
main determinant (in who does and who doesn't develop 
illness from stress) is Social Support.

 

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EDUCATIONAL OPPORTUNITIES
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Free teleseminar on managing stress
http://www.healthywealthynwise.com/healingcode/teleworkshop.asp

Interesting paper on the mind-body connection
http://faculty.weber.edu/molpin/healthclasses/1110/bookchapters/stresseffectschapter.htm

Former Keyzines on related topics:
Volume 5, August 2001 - Spirit at Work
Volume 6, September 2001 - Stress 
Reactions to Terrorism and Major Disasters
Volume 25, April 2003 - When Enough is Not Enough
Volume 32, November 2003 - Renewing Ourselves
Volume 45, December 2004 - Driving Out Fear

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OTHER USEFUL WEBSITES 
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Free health guide, "Transform Stress into Power"
http://www.wellnesscoachingprogram.com/TransformStressIntoPower_Info.htm

How can you manage stress better?
http://www.ivf.com/stress.html

Self-help, stress mind tools, and support to overcome stress
http://www.ivf.com/stress.html

Links, quotes, discussion forum
http://www.imt.net/~randolfi/StressPage.html

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ARTICLES/PUBLICATIONS                              
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Benson, Herbert (1967).  The Relaxation Response.

Charlesworth, Edward A. (1984)  Stress Management: 
A Comprehensive Guide to Wellness
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Csikszentmihalyi, M. (1991).  Flow: 
The Psychology of Optimal Experience
.

Davis, Martha. (2000).  The Relaxation and 
Stress Reduction Workbook
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Elkin, Allen.  (2001).  Stress Management for 
Dummies
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Goldberger, Leo and Breznitz, Shlomo. (1993).
The Handbook of Stress.

Lazarus, Judith. (2000)  Stress Relief & 
Relaxation Techniques
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Leyden-Rubenstein, Lori (1998).  
The Stress Management Handbook.

Seaward, B.L. (2004). Managing Stress: 
Principles and Strategies for Health and Well-being
.
 

Other books for Stress Relief

Please check our Back Issues:

Volume 1, April 2001- Leadership

Volume 2, May 2001- Innovation

Volume 3, June 2001- Coaching

Volume 4, July 2001- Change

Volume 5, August 2001 - Spirit at Work

Volume 6, September 2001 - Stress 
Reactions to Terrorism and Major Disasters

Volume 7, October 2001 - Mediating Conflict  

Volume 8, November 2001 - Keeping Customers 

(Volume 9 - A survey for subscribers only)

Volume 10, January 2002 - Meetings

Volume 11, February 2002 - Teams

Volume 12, March 2002 - Facilitation

Volume 13, April 2002 - Trust & Integrity

Volume 14, May 2002 - Learning Organizations

Volume 15, June 2002 - Motivation

Volume 16, July 2002 - Dealing with Difficult People

Volume 17, August 2002 - Keeping Good People

Volume 18, September 2002 - Organizational Culture

Volume 19, October 2002 - Lean Does Not Have to Be Mean

Volume 20, November 2002 - Speaking from the Heart

Volume 21, December 2002 - Joy in the Workplace

Volume 22, January 2003 - Personal Change

Volume 23, February 2003 - Evolving Workplaces: Telework

Volume 24, March 2003 - The Leader as Storyteller

Volume 25, April 2003 - When Enough is Not Enough

Volume 26, May 2003 - Creative Expression

Volume 27, June 2003 - Facilitative Leadership

Volume 28, July 2003 - Pride in Work

Volume 29, August 2003 - Transformation

Volume 30, September 2003 - Effective Listening

Volume 31, October 2003 - Optimism

Volume 32, November 2003 - Renewing Ourselves

Volume 33, December, 2003 - The Gift

Volume 34, January 2004 - Ethics

Volume 35, February 2004 - Employees as Customers

Volume 36, March 2004 - Valuing Diversity

Volume 37, April 2004 - Dialogue: Thinking Together

Volume 38, May 2004 - Cynicism

Volume 39, June 2004 - Bureaucracy

Volume 40, July 2004 - Building Community

Volume 41, August 2004 - Feedback

Volume 42, September 2004 - Convening People

Volume 43, October 2004 - Loss

Volume 44, November 2004 - Retreats

Volume 45, December 2004 - Driving Out Fear

Volume 46, January 2005 - Having Difficult Conversations

Volume 47, February 2005 - Whither Quality

Volume 48, March 2005 - The Strategic Plan

Volume 49, April 2005 - Measurement

Volume 50, May 2005 - Picture of a Process

Volume 51, June 2005 - Harassment

Volume 52, July 2005 - Customer Retention

Volume 53, August 2005 - Relationship Building

Volume 54, September 2005 - Minding Manners

Volume 55, October 2005 - The World of Words

Volume 56, November 2005 - Giving Direction

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