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KEYZINE: An e-zine for LEADERS:
ABOUT THE PEOPLE PART OF BUSINESS
Volume 41, August 2004
Publisher: © Key Associates, 2004
ISSN # 1545-8873
http://www.mkkey.com
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This Issue: On "Feedback"
This is a monthly electronic magazine for anyone
who wants to be a better leader, coach, facilitator,
or simply, to tune up their people skills. It is a
complimentary publication, devoted to the next
evolution of Quality Thinking.
Contents:
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WHAT'S HOT IN LEADERSHIP
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AN ORGANIZATION COURSING WITH
FEEDBACK FROM CUSTOMERS, EMPLOYEES,
MANAGERS.
USING THAT FEEDBACK FOR CONTINUOUS
IMPROVEMENT OF ALL PROCESSES AND
SYSTEMS.
REPLACING OLD ANNUAL PERFORMANCE
APPRAISALS WITH ONGOING PERFORMANCE
COACHING AND FEEDBACK.
SHAPING FEEDBACK AS A GIFT.
BEING HONEST WITH PEOPLE ABOUT THEIR
IMPACT, AS PART OF BEING IN AUTHENTIC
RELATIONSHIPS.
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MAINTAINING YOURSELF AS A LEADER
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Leaders get almost no balanced, accurate feedback.
Invite critique of your leadership. How else can
you improve?
Here's a story Margaret Wheatley tells about
Dick Knowles' Dupont chemical plant in West Virginia.
The company was seeking a perfect safety record.
Leadership put out 18 values they felt strongly about,
re: people, leadership, etc. Then they told employees
that it was their job to tell management when their
behavior was incongruent with these values--
FEEDBACK! Because of this framing, people
began to focus on their own behavior while trying
to catch management off course. Within one year,
everyone had adopted the values, and injuries
went from 83 to 0 and held at 0 for 18 months.
The change happened because leaders invited
feedback and changed themselves, in doing so.
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FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS
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I duck when I hear the word feedback, and so
do most of my associates.
Feedback has gotten a very bad rap, for the most part.
People have veered from feedback, either from
fear of "negative" feedback or discomfort with
delivering highly favorable feedback.
First, get away from the terms Positive and
Negative Feedback. I like the words, "Reinforcing"
and "Redirecting." The latter fits with Lewin's
rocket science idea and systems thinking.
Second, make the intention or purpose of the
feedback absolutely clear. Let me offer an
introductory invitation to receive feedback,
that has worked for me: "If I knew of something
that would help you be more successful, would
you want to hear about it?" Make sure your
intention is truly to help that person.
There is no substitute for qualitative,
face-to-face,
well-constructed, well-meaning feedback.
Employees will tell you they like feedback,
when it is narrative, anecdotal and customized
to them in their personal situation.
So what are the qualities of good feedback?
Good feedback is:
* Descriptive
* Behavioral
* Specific
* Timely (close to the behavior)
* Given in manageable amounts
* About behavior that can be changed
* Owned by the provider of the feedback ("I" statement)
and is not:
* Purely evaluative
* Vague or ambiguous
* Labeling or stereotyping
* Exaggerated
* Attributing motive
* Delayed
* Lengthy
* Complicated
* Shaming or blaming
Example: "That report you prepared was well-written,
brief, and made your points well." Not "good report."
What if the feedback really is bad news?
Feedback should create dis-equilibrium:
the system that receives it is no longer
stable and must grow or change to incorporate
the new information (Margaret Wheatley).
For those invested in system stability,
this can be very threatening: that listener
will shut down.
Again, the framing of the delivery message is key:
"I know you are concerned about...I thought
you might be interested in what I have observed."
"I have a concern with...Here's what I think is going on."
"This is what I think has happened...This is what I
think needs to happen next."
"When you...I feel...I know that is not your intention.
Here's what I would recommend."
What about team feedback?
Absolutely! This is the direction we are headed.
No employee ever did anything in isolation of the
system they work in.
Teams can evaluate themselves and use this to
improve their own processes. For example, at the
end of the team meeting, ask all to share
DID WELLS/COULD IMPROVES. Give
each other feedback.
One exercise used with advanced teams is the
"you could do: more of, less of, same of" feedback
to each member, making sure members summarize
how they will use the feedback (see Wilson et al.,
1994, pp.217-218).
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EDUCATIONAL OPPORTUNITIES
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Instruction and guiding principles on feedback, the NLP way:
Courses on Feedback:
http://www.skillsoft.com/corporate/curicula/comm/series_comm_0520.htm
Management training on CD-ROM: Providing Feedback:
http://www.bizhotline.com/html/employee_performance__providin.html
Key Associates designs and facilitates retreats in which
teams can openly communicate, address trust issues,
and provide feedback to one another in a safe environment:
http://www.mkkey.com/Key%20Associates/services.htm
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OTHER USEFUL WEBSITES
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Seeking out and acting on employee feedback,
among other communication tips:
http://www.microsoft.com/smallbusiness/issues/management/leadership_training/bosses_7_communication_tips.mspx
Some pointers for employee feedback and communication:
http://www.businesstown.com/people/communication-skills.asp
Articles: How to Provide Feedback that has an Impact:
http://humanresources.about.com/cs/communication/ht/Feedbackimpact.htm
How to Receive Feedback with Dignity and Grace:
http://humanresources.about.com/cs/communication/ht/receivefeedback.htm
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ARTICLES/PUBLICATIONS
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Books are linked to Amazon.com descriptions.
Fournies,
Ferdinand F. Why Employees Don't
Do What They're Supposed to Do and What to Do About It.
Kaye,
Beverly & Jordan-Evans. Love 'Em or
Lose 'Em: Getting Good People to Stay.
London,
Manuel. Job Feedback: Giving, Seeking,
and Using Feedback for Performance Improvement.
Senge,
Peter M. The Fifth Discipline: The Art &
Practice of the Learning Organization.
Stone,
Florence M. Coaching, Counseling, and Mentoring:
How to Choose and Use the Right Tool to Boost Employee
Performance.
Wheatley,
Margaret. Leadership Science:
Discovering Order in a Chaotic World.
Wilson,
Jeanne M. et al. Leadership Trapeze:
Strategies for Leadership in Team-Based Organizations.
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