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KEYZINE: An e-zine for LEADERS:
ABOUT THE PEOPLE PART OF BUSINESS
Volume 42, September 2004
Publisher: © Key Associates, 2004
ISSN # 1545-8873
http://www.mkkey.com
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This Issue: On "Convening People"
This is a monthly electronic magazine for anyone
who wants to be
a better leader, coach, facilitator,
or simply, to tune up their people skills. It is a
complimentary publication, devoted to the
next
evolution of Quality Thinking.
Contents:
"We must have a pure, honest, and warm-hearted
motivation, and on top of that, determination,
optimism, hope, and the ability not to be discouraged.
The whole of humanity depends on this motivation."
-- The
Dalai Lama
"There is no power for change greater than a
community discovering what it cares about."
--
Margaret Wheatley
"Whenever two or more are gathered, I am
there."
--
Matthew 18:20
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WHAT'S HOT IN LEADERSHIP
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HAVING FREQUENT CONVERSATIONS
WITH ALL EMPLOYEES, JUST TO LEARN.
GIVING UP CONTROL AND THE NEED
TO BE RIGHT.
PRACTICING THE ART OF THINKING
TOGETHER.
BALANCING ACTION WITH REFLECTION.
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MAINTAINING YOURSELF AS A LEADER
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I have never seen instructional material, in leadership
training or development programs, about convening
groups and managing conversations in that context.
More likely, the leaders' mentors and role models
have stood before masses and "told" the people
how it was.
Having simple, truthful conversations with people
enables a leader to learn, and gives others a
chance to speak, feel heard, and also to learn.
This is the natural way humans think together.
Listening moves us closer. Dialogue brings
about innovative ideas. Thinking rocks the status
quo.
Widen your space for conversations--extend yourself
in groups, suspend judgment, open your mind, and
listen to learn.
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FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS
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Do you have suggestions for creating conversations?
Margaret Wheatley says this beautifully in her book,
"Turning to One Another (p. 145):"
* Ask "What's
possible," not "What's wrong?"
Keep asking.
* Be brave
enough to start a conversation that matters.
Talk to people you know.
Talk to people you don't know.
Talk to people you never talk to.
*
Be intrigued by the answers you hear.
Expect to be surprised.
Treasure curiosity more than
certainty.
* Invite in everybody who cares to work on what's possible.
Acknowledge that everyone is an
expert on something.
Know that creative solutions come
from new connections.
(excerpted)
Can you suggest formats for conversational meetings?
Here are some newer meeting styles:
How do I include people and draw them
out?
I can only imagine silence when I call a group
together.
In "The Art of Convening," a TeleTraining series,
Craig and Patricia Neal do several valuable exercises,
with the extra challenge of working via phone.
Participants imagine being in a circle formation,
where peerage is automatic. People are welcomed
to the circle, with a greeting, poem or thought. The
conveners' intent is to create a "container" for conversation.
One opener they use is called "Stringing the Beads."
In essence, each person speaks when they are
moved to, their name and thoughts related to a question
--adding their "bead" to the necklace. The meeting
is book-ended, in that you close in the same manner.
A list of Openers/Warm-ups can be found
at the Key Associates website, www.mkkey.com
under Publications-Free
Facilitated exercises.
What is important is to invite the participation
at a human and personal level. And maybe a
little silence is not a bad thing.
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EDUCATIONAL OPPORTUNITIES
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Key Associates teaches The New Look of Leadership
and the Art of Facilitation, and offers Future Search Conferences
http://www.mkkey.com/Key%20Associates/courses.htm
Methodologies for large group interventions
http://www.vista.uk.com/whatwedo/largegroups/index.php
A worldwide portal devoted to the fullest sharing
of academic resources and practical tools on
Appreciative Inquiry
http://ai.cwru.edu/
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OTHER USEFUL WEBSITES
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Read more about large group interventions
http://www.geocities.com/dian_marie_hosking/LGIBasic.htm
On-line open space community
http://openspaceworld.org
A worldwide network to develop
leadership
capacity in communities:
http://www.berkana.org/index.html
The interactive planning process, Future
Search
http://www.futuresearch.net
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ARTICLES/PUBLICATIONS
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Books are linked to Amazon.com descriptions.
Block,
Peter. The Answer to How is Yes:
Acting on What Matters.
Bunker,
B. B. & Alban, B. T. Large Group
Interventions : Engaging the Whole System
for Rapid Change.
Lappe,
F. M. & Perkins, J. You Have the Power:
Choosing Courage in a Culture of Fear.
Hammond,
S. A. & Royal, C. Lessons From
the Field: Applying Appreciative Inquiry.
Owen,
Harrison. Open Space Technology:
A User's Guide.
Senge,
Peter et al. Presence: Human Purpose
and the Field of the Future.
Weisbord, Marvin & Janoff, Sandra. Future Search.
Wheatley,
Margaret. Turning to Another:
Simple Conversations to Restore Hope to the Future.
A comprehensive bibliography of Leadership books.
http://www.solonline.org/organizational_overview/Booklist/
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